Guys and their views on relationship;
Today is the 3rd day in a row where I talk to different groups of guys about relationships, and life in general.
I couldn’t help but smile listening to them… because guys are just as emotional as girls.
(Obviously. They’re just too proud to admit it).
But it was nice listening to them slowly open up after a while and talk to me about their exes, what went wrong, and what they look for in a girl.
One actually admitted to me that he regrets breaking up with one of his exes. A christian girl who was really sweet, but back at the time he didn’t believe in God.
“I regret that. She was such a good girl, but I wasn’t into religion back then. I didn’t believe in that. But now she’s married. Ironically enough, I go to church every Sunday and sometimes on the weekday when I get a chance. That was ten years ago.”
Mmm… they’re all emotional too. It’s just that girls are more honest about it.
They all get jealous just how we do, they all miss some of their exes who were good girls, but don’t admit it either out of pride or because the girl has a new man, they all want something meaningful…
but they get distracted with physicality, haha.
Nonetheless, it reminded me of the guys at SUNY, and all the conversations I had with them.
And I appreciate these talks, because we get to bond and our friendships become closer and I get to understand guys more.
Ironically enough, everything they said kept making me smile because I had heard it plenty of times before with the guys back upstate. I would actually finish their sentences and they would just go, “OMG YESSSS!!” and it would make me laugh hahaha xD
In all honesty, relationships aren’t complicated at all. They can be so simple. We just make them complicated because of the way we think and conflict with each other and how we deal with it all.